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Dear PEP Callers:
I like to start getting to know my clients by asking what they're into, what turns them on, and so forth. Not infrequently, they return the favor. Of course, some of them have read my profiles and feel like they have a good idea of what I'm into, but not all callers have, and I think some callers feel that perhaps I didn't personally create my profiles, or that they're a misrepresentation. Maybe some callers also want to hear me articulate what I'm into, in my own spoken words.
But here’s my problem: some people have a fairly narrow range of focus—they're sissies, or they're into body worship, or their fantasies center on humiliation, for example. And they sometimes ask, "Are you into THIS?" And my answer is usually a little tepid like, "We can do that," or, "I'm alright with it.” I'm not the kind of gal who blows smoke up anyone's ass. I always speak honestly.
Here’s the clincher: What I'm really into is power exchange. THE FORM IT TAKES IS LARGELY IRRELEVANT.
I want all my current and prospective callers to know that you as a person are more important to me than your kink or kinks—and the journey that we can take, together, is more central than the sights we might visit along the way. I think of it this way: power exchange, or domination and submission if you prefer that language, fundamentally interests me. That’s the fuel we use to take a journey together—that intense, explosive mix of surrender and control. Sometimes the journey has a predetermined destination, a goal that we set, together. Sometimes the journey is about the pleasure and surprise of exploration. But whether there's a destination or not, the other kinks that we talk about (such as sissification, humiliation, sadomasochism, whatever—really, I have no taboos) are simply tools in a big ol’ toolbox that we can pull out and use to help us get there.
My fundamental interest in all this is in YOU, not in the various tools in my toolbox. I'm not going to use the same tools on you as I would on someone else. I wouldn't use the same tools to fix my car as I would to fix my computer, for heaven's sake, and you shouldn't feel embarrassed, ashamed, or worried about that. I have quite a bit of experience, so I have a lot of tools in my heavy toolbox. Yes, I will admit to having more expertise or a better affinity for some kinks than for others, but the interaction and the energy that develops between us is much more key to me than the particular tool I'm using. A tool is a tool, it's not right or wrong in and of itself, it's only right or wrong for a particular job, and MY job is YOU. ;) - j.
Note from the Editors: Justice was the very first PEP Lady, ever, to pen a "letter to current and prospective callers." She popped hers onto her FetLife in late 2017 or so, and we fell in love with the idea. Now, all of our Ladies write down what they want you to know, first and foremost, in their own language, which us PEP Execs lightly edit, at most. Justice comes up with a lot of the very cool prompts we use all around PEP, to create material that will pique & keep & heighten your interest & sense of connection. xo